Naughty in N'awlins 2018

We will be on hand to answer questions, explain how the weekend is going to unfold and go over the schedule of events and answer all the questions.
We will also have a fun ice-breaking game where we practice our consent.
Meet the educators and entertainers. 

Ask for What You Want: Get More of What You Desire

Life is more enjoyable when you are receiving the things you most want and desire. So why are you not getting all that you deserve out of your relationships? Have you asked for it? Asking can be hard. Where do you even start and how do you get more of it? That is something that is on all of our minds, whether it is a sexually based want or a general want . Find out what it is to ask, listen, negotiate, and receive with pleasure. We could all use a little more pleasure in our lives, let’s start asking for it! 


*This is a free seminar. All you need is your beautiful self and a desire to get more of what you want! 

Consent Chat

Join us for an informal chat about Consent, both in the lifestyle and in a non-sexual context. Bring your questions, experiences and let’s have a discussion on how we can make sure everyone is comfortable talking about consent!

Intro to Sex Astrology: Naughty Desires of the Zodiac Signs

Forget everything you think you know about astrology. Instead, let's think about your unique fantasies, fetishes, the unlikely people who have peaked your interest, and your distinct bedroom personality.  Do you ever wonder where these come from? These aspects of the self come from somewhere deep inside each of us, and the fact is that we have little choice about WHAT and WHO turns us on. This is what personal astrology really means from an intimate standpoint – that your one-of-a-kind sexuality was assigned to you by a unique combination of planetary alignments occurring at your exact moment of birth. Even more interesting, when comparing this detailed information for two potential sex partners, astrology determines whether or not they will spark that magical energetic connection we call "chemistry".

Sex astrology is not only fascinating, it works! The Zodiac shows which of your partners will be more stimulated through the mind than the body; they will require a great deal of mental engagement, challenge, and dirty talk to reach orgasm. Others tend to be simply physical; they benefit from a partner's focus on the 5 senses, incorporating food, smells, and sexy fabrics, leather and lace. Interracial attraction, BDSM tastes, costuming, bisexuality, and a preference for threesomes versus partner swapping are just a few of the many more taboo aspects of sexuality predictable using astrology.

At Naughty in N'awlins, Julie will introduce sex astrology to the Lifestyle for the first time, discussing what an incredible tool it is for sexual fulfillment. Astrology can help each of us understand our desires better. It can help us pinpoint, communicate, and creatively explore our preferences, needs, kinks, and erogenous zones with partners.  Even more importantly, it explains the source of our most secret and intimate needs, leading us to accept and voice them without judgment. How can anyone please us when we are too ashamed to share our most erotic fantasies?

Julie expresses a great deal of excitement about the information she has to share at NIN 2018. She urges everyone to come meet with her and learn what the stars have to say about sex and desire. Astrology is a mysterious, ancient knowledge that will open a gateway to an unending world of fantasy for you and your partner.

Entice your partner with various Tantric exotic and erotic kissing techniques to to expand pleasure, sensuality and connection, using kissing to go from warm to hot... Delicious and fun! Stay with your partner, or be guided to experience the 9 kissing techniques with others in order to meet new people! Every part of your body can be an erotic zone... cheek, neck, lips, shoulders... and of course... more!
 
A sexy, safe and delicious life game. Explore the Tantric Kiss, Nibble Kiss, Quicksilver Kiss, Melting Kiss, Sucking Kiss, Breast Kiss (all only performed if a “yes” is given), and more!
Mints provided. (90 minutes of connection and bliss)

BY THE WAY... We currently have over 100 sexy folks coming to this Thursday class at 10:30am. We've added a 2nd Kissing to Entice class on Friday morning at10:30am... so if you'd like to review, or especially if you'd like to change to a more intimate class, please feel free to do so! 

Teress & Rajahn are looking forward to seeing you either Thursday and/or Friday! 
Let's have some fun!!

BAE is Bisexual: What’s Next?

What happens next after opening up to your mate that you are bisexual? How do you deal with the emotional Bi Rollercoaster that follows? Join Sexperts Dee H Black & Laydee Vee as they delve into being Married & Bi Sexual. This seminar will focus on how to have open communication with your mate about your bisexuality and how you express it while maintaining a happy and healthy relationship. Learn how to build trust with your mate while on the prowl for new partners. Get advice on how to get into your first threesome and what happens after the experience. This workshop will include a bonus Q&A with the sexperts.

"DESIGNER RELATIONSHIPS" Navigating The Lifestyle  (FREE)

Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce has been teaching the art of conscious living sexuality & relationships for three decades.  Now an internationally known educator and event creator of Exotic Lifestyle Retreats.  Dr. Nancy helps you decode the terms and definitions commonly and uncommonly used within the Adult Lifestyle Community.  How do YOU define, “The Lifestyle”?  What does “Enthusiastic Consent” look like?  Are you as comfortable with your NO as you are your YES?  How do you handle rejection?  What are our sexual rights as individuals and as a part of a relationship?  We have a lot to cover…. Arrive early!

Join us after the Seminar for INTIMATE DESIGN PLAYSHOP from 2-3:30pm $200 per couple
Pre-Registration necessary - Email DrNancy@DrNSP.com with questions. Registration only complete once payment is received.

Please download Dr. Nancy's Naughty in N'awlins Full schedule! 

Just when you think you’re Kinky, Jet Setting Jasmine & King Noire push you to take it up a notch! Exploring the world of Fetishes can be just as overwhelming as it is fun! Fetish training is a service provided by Jet Setting Jasmine LLC. A Fetish Trainer is an intimacy professional that is skilled at helping single and/or couple clients explore fetishes. King Noire takes a non-judgmental and supportive approach to normalizing some of their client’s most intimate desires and or introduces fetishes in a safe environment. Submissive, dominate and switch roles are awakened through the session. Many are surprised to find out what their role is but once they find it, the real exploration begins. Participants will be able to introduce fetishes to their partner(s) is a fun and interactive workshop.

In the kink community and the lifestyle, we rock at communicating limits, boundaries, consent and respect, plus we check in with our partner/s.  At home, if we have a core coupleship, we don't always translate those skills.  I will be presenting on how to improve your communication and transfer the  excellent skills you already have into creating a more effective interaction at home. Teaching John Gottman and other clinical expert communication skills and tips, I will assist you in improving respectful communication in your relationships: ways to frame your concerns/requests, opening up about covert power in handling daily topics, defense mechanisms, how to handle a conflict stand still and reflective listening skills.

The Language of Love:  “Building Rapport & Intimacy with your Partner or Other Couples”
You will be taken on a journey of understanding; leading you down the rabbit hole to the incredible intimacy building techniques discussed.  This class starts with learning pacing, which stimulates rapport.  This journey stimulates your senses with the 3 magic questions; these powerful questions are the equivalent of simply, automatically, logically and intuitively melting away the barriers, allowing you to move beyond speaking.  During this class you will understand the 7 critical path language patterns, leading to expanding your intimacy.
 During this class you will expand and sharpen your awareness, resulting in the discovery of enhanced relationships from the bedroom to the boardroom and in between.  You may even find yourself stopping the language patterns you were using; start using these new patterns; and fully understanding your communication now.

I may be asking for volunteers from the audience.
*This is a free class, just bring all your senses and a willingness to participate.*

The largest sex organ you have is YOUR BRAIN, so let’s use it in a new way to make your sex life even better!  After a brief introduction to hypnosis, attendees will have the option to participate in a fun, sexy, erotic hypnosis session so you can experience first-hand the power of what your mind is truly capable of and the erotic pleasures waiting for you.  You’ll also leave this class with a simple, powerful, self hypnosis technique that you can use to enhance your sex life forever!  Singles and Couples are welcome to attend.  "Come" as many times as you like! 

Comedian, Hypnotist, and Author - your instructor has been in the lifestyle nearly 10 years.  As the comedian known as The Dominatrix of Ditties, she'd been voted Top Female Lifestyle Entertainer of the Year in 2015, 2016, & 2017.  As a Certified Hypnotist and Certified Hypnotherapist, Traci has over 1200 hours of hypnosis and hypnotherapy training, and specializes in hypnosis for sswingers, nudists and BDSMers.   She wrote and published her first book, “Hey, And Other Scintillating Mating Calls From The Online Dating World" last December, which details her dating exploits as she tries to find love in a world with a warped digitial filter.  www.tracikanaan.com www.dominatrixofditties.com  www.wingshypnosis.com   www.heytraci.com

Evolution of Desire: A Look Into the Biology of Attraction 

Desire, lust, jealousy, love, these all have a biological foundation. As a complex species, we have evolved over millions of years to have elaborate love lives that involve layers of biological and sociological functions.  Join E and Dragonfly as they look at the underlying causes for many of the emotions and desires we experience with our partners. Comprehending these unseen forces will help you to understand your own biology as well as your partners. 

*This is a free seminar. All you need is your beautiful self!

Entice your partner with various exotic and erotic kissing techniques to to expand pleasure, sensuality and connection, using kissing to go from warm to hot... Delicious and fun! Stay with your partner, or be guided to experience the 9 kissing techniques with others in order to meet new people!
 
A sexy, safe and delicious life game. Explore the Tantric Kiss, Nibble Kiss, Quicksilver Kiss, Melting Kiss, Sucking Kiss, Breast Kiss (all only performed if a “yes” is given), and more!
Mints provided. (90 minutes of connection and bliss)

Advanced Flirting & The Art of Pussy Pleasing 

Do you think you know all the tricks of the trade when it comes to flirting and pussy pleasing? Are you someone who just wants to learn some fancy new techniques? Or are you just orally challenged? Any way you look at it, there’s always something to learn when it comes to pleasing the vulva. Whether it’s with your long-term partner or brief lover or somebody in-between, you can use these step-by-step techniques to earn your lover’s admirability.

You can pay for this session here: https://squareup.com/store/velvet-lips/item/naughty-in-nawlins-pussy-pleasing

“SEX THROUGH OUR LIVES” –  (FREE)
What is normal?  How do we adapt to change? How do I know what to expect of my sex life?
From birth to death we are sexual beings.  Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce, a Holistic Clinical Sexologist and Health & Intimacy Expert, has also been a registered nurse for over three decades.  Along with her husband, Dr.  Mark Pierce, Board Certified Internal Medicine, they share with you the natural progression of our sexuality along with the effects that normal life situations have on us, such as new relationship hormonal beer goggles, pregnancy, raising children, mother-in-law living with you, illness, monotony, aging, stress and more.  How to deal with varying sexual desires within your relationship and ways in which to keep your relationship sexy for the long haul.

Email DrNancy@DrNSP.com with questions. 

Please download Dr. Nancy's Naughty in N'awlins Full schedule! 

General lecture from professional photographer on how to take sexy photos, involving posing, settings, filters and conditions.

Check out my website for ideas of the photos we are going to be talking about in the class.
http://www.jongunnarphoto.com/sexy

JonGunnar is also available for private photo shoots and private bondage sessions.

Bias in the Lifestyle

Being in the Lifestyle doesn’t automatically mean everyone is open-minded or non-judgemental. One obvious example is bisexuality bias in the Lifestyle. There is a perception in the Lifestyle, particularly in the world of swingers, that all women are assumed to be bi but all men are assumed to be straight, which meant straight women are an oddity, and bi men are shunned.

Join us for an informal chat and discussion and hear other people’s experiences about biases encountered in the Lifestyle.

Monkey Prostitution and Cock Blocking Bees: Lessons on Relationships and Sex from the Natural World

Gang Bangs, corkscrew vaginas, and 4 headed penises, OH MY! We all have a few crazy sex and relationship stories, even mother nature. In fact, when it comes to attraction, courtship, mating and alternative relationships she makes most of us look vanilla.  Join E, a former zookeeper, as he delves into the fascinating and sometimes outrageous world of animal mating behavior, and explores the lessons that we can take away for use in our own relationships.

*This is a free seminar. All you need is your beautiful self!

Facesitting 101 for Beginners  
If you’ve ever wanted to get on top of your mate’s face but didn’t have confidence in your skills this seminar is for you! Join DV Passion for a lesson in Face Sitting for beginners. Learn how to successfully pleasure your mate through facesitting and learn techniques to position you and your partner comfortably. You will gain confidence building techniques for facesitting so you can shine like the star you are baby! You will learn how to establish a safe word to use when a break is needed in face sitting, and how to create space to leverage weight for an ease in riding face.

“SEXUAL APPETITES”  FREE)
Why are taboos so hot?  What turns us on and why?  How to deal with mismatched appetites.  How do sexual fantasies fit in?  What is your preferred kink?  Touch upon a number of sexy topics including porn, kink, fetish and fantasy!
Join us 2-3:30 today for the "FANTASY PLAYSHOP" where you will get to explore your fantasies with some really fun, sexy interactive twists!  $40 per couple
Pre-Registration necessary - Email DrNancy@DrNSP.com with questions. Registration only complete once payment is received.

Please download Dr. Nancy's Naughty in N'awlins Full schedule! 

Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire, owners of Royal Fetish Film, share their personal and professional experience with disparities of race in the Adult Entertainment Industry. The duo tackle the gaps in representation, financial compensation and recognition of entertainers in the Adult Industry, a replica of American culture. Participants will engage in an interactive presentation and discussion on how institutional racism holds no bar in a billion dollar industry.

"Mindfulness is the basic human ability to be fully present, aware of where we are and what we’re doing, and not overly reactive or overwhelmed by what’s going on around us." We can swing in a variety of ways, through a large lifestyle event or club, private small or large parties, or an intimate 3 to 4 person interaction. In this class, I'm going to teach you how to implement mindfulness while sport fucking or eyes wide open connectedness with another. This class will teach the basics of mindfulness plus add a fun twist on how to really be in the moment beyond the physical while we play. 

Coexist (A New Hope): A look at the separation of alternative sexuality communities
This panel delves into the experiences of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom constituent communities (swing lifestyle, polyamory, BDSM-leather-fetish/kink) in terms of discrimination and bias amongst themselves. Despite the fact that our communities tend to face similar obstacles, such as access to knowledgeable and nonjudgmental professionals and damaging public policy, we often find that we hold too many preconceptions to adequately interact. Here, we seek to learn from each other and search for ways to create more commonality and unity so as to better serve our constituents and advance equal human rights for consenting adults more effectively.

Let’s Get This Play Party Started!!! If you’re tired of spending hours getting to know a couple only to find out they don’t play, aren’t ready to play, or worse yet, they're DRAMA...then this workshop is for you! You’ll leave this workshop with loads of information on how to find couples, approach couples both online and in person, what questions to ask to see if they’re DTF (Down To Fuck) and compatible with you and your partner's play style. Learn 3 questions you should ask so you can spot the drama long before your play date, how to close the deal and set up a play date, and lastly...how to exit your play session gracefully when shit goes south.   

Comedian, Hypnotist, and Author - your instructor has been in the lifestyle nearly 10 years.   As the comedian known as The Dominatrix of Ditties, she's been voted Top Female Lifestyle Entertainer of the Year in 2015, 2016, & 2017.  As a Certified Hypnotist and Certified Hypnotherapist, Traci has over 1200 hours of hypnosis and hypnotherapy training, and specializes in hypnosis for sswingers, nudists and BDSMers.   She wrote and published her first book, “Hey, And Other Scintillating Mating Calls From The Online Dating World" last December, which details her dating exploits as she tries to find love in a world with a warped digitial filter.  www.tracikanaan.comwww.dominatrixofditties.com  www.wingshypnosis.com   www.heytraci.com